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I’ve Tried Everything!

When people have been stuck on an issue for some time they can come to an obvious conclusion…

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When people have been stuck on an issue for some time they can come to an obvious conclusion – that they’ve tried everything.  No doubt they’ve tried a lot, but there can be a fine line between resting on a sob story and being diligently open to answers.  I’ve come across a lot of people who have struggled with health for many years and are now closed off to anything new, because they’ve ‘tried everything.’  Sometimes, those things they’ve ‘tried’ they didn’t do right.  Perhaps their unconscious hampered them, because it loves the hard luck story. Sure we can be dismayed if we put forth an honest effort or intention and we come up with nothing, but it’s important to remain true to our dream or goal.

  • People run stories in their minds.  Some stories are about hard luck.
  • Part of the human condition is to pass blame.  If we had nothing standing in our way, we’d have to take full responsibility for ourselves.  
  • There is an old saying (well, it’s from Star Wars): “Do or do not, there is no try.”
  • Sometimes we don’t actually want to heal or succeed, we want it to look like we did everything possible, but fell short.  
  • No one ever solved a problem by focusing on the problem.  They focused on the solution. Without a guiding star, an overarching dream that compels us, we will never move forward.  If we spend our time focusing on and obsessing over our problems, ‘trying everything,’ we will continue to ‘try everything.’

The following premise applies to everything in life:

Be dedicated to the process, but unattached to the outcome.

How do we achieve this?

  • Acknowledge where we are.
  • Observe it, with no emotional attachment.
  • Determine our overarching dream.
  • Figure out what’s wrong.
  • Make a plan of action.
  • Forget about what’s wrong.
  • Dedicate to the process, forget about the outcome.
  • Work diligently and joyfully toward the dream, with the intention of serving a higher purpose, not ourselves.

The old expression ‘journey over destination,’ rings especially true.  The point of life isn’t to ‘have’ everything we ‘want,’ but what we learn, and how we grow.  If we lie to ourselves (‘try everything’) we will be fraught with frustration, anger, sadness, despair.  If we are honest in our thoughts, motives and actions, we will always be fulfilled, no matter the circumstances.  We usually end up with what we wanted anyway, because we gave up wanting.

When we want something, we can affirm our lack of it, and push it away from us.

People make ‘getting better’ (from a health condition), losing weight, making more money or finding a partner their raison d’etre.  They focus only on having what they want, with no reason to have it.  Want more money?  Great!  Why? What are you going to put into the world, in order to have that in return?   What are you going to do with that once you have it?  If you don’t know, you probably won’t have it.  You’ll ‘try everything’ in order to get there, but never get there.  Want to lose weight, cure a parasite or yeast infection or recover from chronic fatigue?  Great!  Why?  What are you going to do with that health once you have it?  If you don’t know, you won’t have it.  What are you going to put into the world in order to receive it?  Nothing?  You don’t have the energy to output?  The world owes you something?  Well then, enjoy ‘trying everything.’

Something I learned from Paul Chek is the importance of establishing a dream.  If you don’t know what your dream is, think of your nightmare or worst case scenario, and go in the opposite direction of that.  A tip: all ancient texts speak of giving to give, not giving to get.  The action is the same, but the intention, and result (karma), are night and day.

Tom.

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The Workout-Success Connection: How Physical Fitness Transforms Every Area of Life

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When we think of working out, the immediate benefits that come to mind are usually physical: improved strength, better endurance, or a more athletic physique. But physical fitness transcends the body. The habits, skills, and mindset developed through consistent exercise can be the ground work for success in all areas of life—personal, professional, and spiritual.

  1. Discipline: The Foundation of Progress

At the heart of every workout routine is discipline. Showing up day after day, regardless of how you feel, builds the muscle of commitment. In the gym, it’s about doing one more set even when you’re tired. Outside the gym, it’s about sticking to long-term goals, pushing through setbacks, and maintaining consistency. Whether it’s advancing your career, deepening relationships, or pursuing personal development, discipline is what keeps you moving forward when motivation fades.

  1. Goal Setting and Achievement

Fitness is one of the most tangible ways to practice goal setting. Whether you’re aiming to lift a certain weight, run a particular distance, or hit a body fat percentage, every fitness objective requires planning, dedication, and action. The same approach applies to all areas of life. Setting clear, measurable goals with timelines—whether it’s a promotion at work, learning a new skill, or achieving financial stability—is crucial for success. Working out teaches you to break larger goals into smaller milestones, track progress, and celebrate achievements along the way.

  1. Resilience and Mental Toughness

Life is filled with challenges, and developing valuable character attributes is key to overcoming them. Exercise, particularly intense or strenuous routines, trains your mind to push through discomfort and adversity. Each difficult workout is a lesson in perseverance, and over time, you learn to embrace challenges rather than shy away from them. This mental toughness translates to other aspects of life—helping you navigate difficult conversations, tackle complex projects, or handle unexpected setbacks with grace and determination.

  1. Focus and Time Management

In our increasingly distracted world, focus is a superpower. Effective workouts demand that you be present and intentional, whether you’re lifting weights, running, or practicing yoga. This mindfulness in training sharpens your ability to concentrate on the task at hand, which is essential for productivity and efficiency in your career and personal life. Furthermore, balancing a consistent workout routine with other responsibilities enhances your time management skills, teaching you to prioritize and schedule effectively.

  1. Confidence and Self-Belief

Few things build self-confidence like the steady progress you see through regular training. As you hit personal bests or notice changes in your body, your sense of self-worth grows. This confidence isn’t just about appearance—it’s the belief that you can set goals, work toward them, and achieve them. When you believe in your ability to succeed in one area, like fitness, it spills over into other areas of life, from tackling new projects to speaking up in meetings or taking risks that lead to personal growth.

  1. Health and Energy: The Foundations of High Performance

Without health, everything else suffers. Regular exercise boosts your physical health, increases energy levels, improves sleep, and reduces stress—all essential for performing at your best in life. Whether you’re pursuing professional excellence or personal fulfillment, having the energy and vitality to keep going is crucial. Fitness ensures that you have the physical and mental capacity to perform at your peak across all domains.

  1. Accountability and Responsibility

In the gym, no one else can do the reps for you. You are responsible for your progress, and there’s no shortcut to achieving results. This accountability is a powerful principle that applies to life in general. Success requires taking ownership of your actions and outcomes.

Whether you’re managing a business, leading a team, or cultivating personal relationships, understanding that your effort directly impacts your results is key.

  1. Adaptability and Growth Mindset

Workouts often require you to adjust your approach based on how your body feels, how much progress you’ve made, or what obstacles arise (like injury or fatigue). This adaptability is crucial in all areas of life. The ability to pivot when necessary and stay open to learning and growth—even when faced with failure—fosters long-term success. In fitness, as in life, you’ll face plateaus and setbacks, but those with a growth mindset continue to evolve and improve.

Conclusion: Fitness as a Gateway to Total Life Success

Working out is far more than a physical endeavor. It’s a powerful training ground for life skills that will help you excel in every area. From discipline and goal setting to resilience and adaptability, the attributes you develop in the gym serve as tools for overcoming challenges, achieving success, and becoming the best version of yourself. So the next time you lace up your shoes or lift that weight, remember: you’re not just working on your body—you’re building the foundation for a successful and fulfilling life.

And taking that step into fitness training doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Even something as simple as adding a 20-minute walk to your day can spark positive changes throughout your life. Knowing that this extra effort can ripple into every area, from your mindset to your energy levels, is empowering—and it’s a reminder that small, consistent actions can lead to transformative results across your entire life.

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Beartaria Times Member Shares History and Benefits of Haymaker’s Punch

Today, we saw a post that will be very beneficial in the coming summer heat, especially for those out in the fields!

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Whether it’s valuable resources or witty fun, we find great content on our community app every day. Today, we saw a post that will be very beneficial in the coming summer heat, especially for those out in the fields!
Numismaticbear shared a post introducing some of us to Switchel, also known as Haymaker’s Punch!

This sounds like a great beverage to put together!

Thanks for sharing Numismaticbear!

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Something Your Baby Will Be Happy With

I tried EC for one week, and I’m never going back.

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I tried EC for one week, and I’m never going back. Elimination communication allows your baby to relieve themselves outside their diapers and for you to be in tune with their bathroom needs just as you do with knowing when they are hungry.

This can lead to caregivers becoming more in tune with the baby, giving the baby the option of hygiene, cutting down on waste/laundry, and assisting in earlier toilet training. In many countries today, EC is the standard instead of disposable diapers, just without the fancy name.

Do you use the restroom when you wake up or leave to go somewhere? Well, so does baby, and this is the concept of the four easy catches. If it all sounds complicated, just using time and transition to your advantage is a great place to start. The “four easy catches” are offering the baby the potty upon waking up, at diaper changes, signs of effort, and during the transition (getting in and out of something such as the car seat or baby carrier).

For Mothers (or other caregivers) familiar with EC but have yet to try it because it sounds too daunting, I encourage you to try it!
Before my daughter was born, I knew I wanted to use cloth diapers and implement EC. But I wanted to do these things as they came organically and not force myself if it brought more stress than benefit. By three weeks, I was using cloth diapers, and by 6 1/2 weeks, I began EC with her.
In the first week, my baby had only a few poopy diapers. She usually lets me know when she needs to go. Sometimes, I miss it, and sometimes, I put her on the potty, and nothing happens. It is important to remember why you started and not focus on the misses.

While this article wasn’t meant to be a complete study on the subject, I did want to introduce others to the practice or share my positive experience with those aware of EC.

Many resources online cover the subject in depth, I encourage mothers to read around if this is new to you.
I just wanted to share that it works! I took it slow and still utilize diapers, but I am super happy I began to try and implement EC.

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